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Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts

Would You Wait for God to Treat Your Kid?

That's what a couple did when their daughter got diabetes. Instead of getting her treated from a qualified physician, they prayed to God for her recovery. How stupid one can be. The DA says there was no intent of killing involved in this case. For god's sake, the child is dead, and all because of her ignorant and idiot parents. They should be punished severely, but then who will look after their other two children? They have been sent to some relative's. Does faith heals, can god really help to cure an illness? If yes, then doctors will be the first ones to strike against God and his pvt. ltd. We turn to God in extreme circumstances, normally it is the doctor who looks like the person who can help us get rid of a fat ass or a bad toothache or a malignant tumor. Where science and medicines fail, God enters. I am not an atheist, I believe in afterlife and a superpower, but the idea of sick getting recovered by god's miracles is too much for me to believe.

Worry not. parents

Ananya is 19 months. she likes me reading books to her, especially noddy ones by Enid Blyton.kids r fascinated by colors and pictures. Nannu also likes to watch animal pictures, either books or on net. she has started recognizing many things . though i don't intend to force her in to being a 2 year old intellectual wonder, but being a parent i relish the her stock of knowledge. my father-in-law used to say that we know she will walk and talk but that first step she took, the little mumbling-utterances r the sweetest words right now. we eagerly wait when the child will start saying mama, papa. some times when the natural growth seems to be delayed, its natural for the parents to be anxious. but NEVER compare your child with another child. each child has her own pace of development. some start walking as early as 8 months and some may take their first step well after one year. same is the case with speech. the son of my husband's colleague is 20 months and hasn't yet started speaking( most of the time he yells). i asked his mother to place all his toys out of his reach so that he will have to ask for her help. sometimes when kids get everything easily and without demanding then they don't feel the need to communicate.as their needs are being met.

raising kids

raising kids can b an hair raising experience especially when the power struggle goes endlessly. yeah! forget bush n saddam. our modern day autocrats are 1 or 2 yrs and yet making us dance to their tunes( which can vary being simply charming to hellish screechy). i devote most of my time running around little annaya. thought to preserve these moments of bliss and blast. so here i m.